Sound familiar?
You two randomly start talking one day. He compliments you and tells you that you’re pretty and cute. He asks you about your past relationships and you ask him about his. When you tell him you’ve been hurt multiple times, he tells you that those guys are all jerks and are stupid for letting a girl like you go. Then you share some more stories about your past and he does the same. He starts flirting with you, and you start flirting back. Then he asks for your number and you give it to him right away. The next day he texts you and tells you good morning, and to have a good day. Soon enough, talking to him becomes your daily routine and you wait for him everyday to text you. Whenever you receive something from him, you immediately start smiling and your day instantly becomes better. He texts you daily asking how your day went. You talk to him all night. He always asks you if you’re tired, and if you want to go to sleep. The night conversations you have with him are always the best and the deepest. You sleep when he sleeps and he sleeps when you sleep. Now he wants to meet up and hang out with you. When you meet up with him, you feel even more chemistry, and you feel butterflies in your stomach every time you talk to him. Now you tell your friends about what an amazing guy he is and that you are definitely interested. Soon he confesses that he is interested in you and you tell him that the feelings are mutual. You start going on more dates and he starts giving you cute nicknames and calling you baby. You feel like the happiest girl in the world and the feelings are strong between you guys. One day he suddenly stops texting you first. When you guys talk now, it’s only because you hit him up first. Things change, and you don’t understand what unexpectedly happened. He stops putting effort in talking to you and doesn’t show that he still wants to be with you. You become extremely clingy, and you don’t want another girl in the picture. You cant help but wonder what went wrong. You ask him if anything is wrong and he tells you that everything is fine. Then you start thinking he is mad at you, for something you did, but he assures you that you need to relax and everything is okay. He tells you that he’s just been busy. So you wait for awhile and nothing is changing. He’s still ‘busy’ all the time and doesn’t even try to talk to you. Now every time you talk, it becomes an argument and you get scared that you’re being annoying by hitting him up first, so you stop talking to him. Months pass and you don’t even talk at all. You never know what happened from his point of view. Because of him, everyday and night you are hurt and upset. You don’t know what went wrong in the relationship between you two. Your friends tell you to forget him and that he doesn’t deserve someone like you. But, you cant seem to listen to them. You’re already too attached to him. You miss the old person he used to be and you don’t even know what he has turned into. One day, you see that he has a new girl in his life. He’s calling her cute names and telling her everything he used to tell you. He calls her baby and tells her she’s gorgeous. He tells her everything that you’ve heard before. He seems completely fine without you and now he has someone else to talk to and text everyday and night. You refuse to believe that he played you, but it’s true. You’re still hurt, but he’s already moved on. You’re still sad and everything you do reminds you of him. You can’t stop thinking about him. You secretly hope that you guys will start talking again and you will pick up where you last left off, but you also know that it will never, ever happen. You compare every guy you now meet with him. He’s already forgotten about you, but you’re still trying to let go …